I am sure it is a decision to find what is the situation that " is in the best interest of the children." I know that whomever the children are with, they are going to be raised well. We are equally best for the kids. I know that we may disagree on how the children are raised, but I think that's what makes parenting such a dynamic challenge. Now with co-parenting across a small distance, I expect it to be even more so.