Through these trials I have held to a few books that have helped me stay grounded to God's purpose. I highly recommend them to any individual who is struggling in love and relationships. First, read Boundries. Then, I contrast and bounce between Dr James Dobson's Love Must Be Tough and The Love Dare. As a resource I have found a few books analyzing Love Languages. These are staples in my life library and in many ways has intertwined itself to my life journey. I will quote from them regularly. As I grow I ask The Lord to continue to bring wisdom in its many forms.